Tea and Consent
Why Hacker News recommends it
Mostly invoked as an analogy or joke, including in discussions of opt-in consent and voluntary transactions.
What it is
A short animation from Thames Valley Police that explains sexual consent by comparing it to offering someone a cup of tea.
Recommended by 0 HN commenters across 0 different months, 2021 to 2026.
What Hacker News said
Cites thegrimmest · 2023-08 · on “Seattle becomes first in U.S. to protect gig workers from sudden 'deactivation'”
[this video] [2:49] I agree it's not an absolute, immutable concept, but I think it's a hell of a lot clearer than "good" or "right" or "fair". What makes consent is the fact that either party can opt out at any time for any/no reason. It's consensual because we are decision-making agents, and in spite of privation we can still choose to refuse to transact. Consent is violated by force or direct threat of force, not by the circumstances the transacting parties may find themselves in. If you're very horny can you still refuse to consent to sex? If you happen to be dying of thirst and I offer you a glass of water, can you refuse? You can. Are there may reasons why you would? I don't imagine so. Doe
Cites thegrimmest · 2024-04 · on “This is a teenager”
> anti-authoritarians are also anti-liberal The words are overloaded, but liberal and authoritarian are on opposite ends of the same axis on the political compass. Classical liberalism stands on the ideas of individualism and laissez-faire economics. Today these ideas are also called "libertarian" but the core desire is expressed in the Latin root word. I want to be free - as in without a master, elected or otherwise, who governs my life. > I find them overly vague I'd be glad to elaborate. I'm positing that it's more important our interactions be consensual than value-maximizing. Would you kill one unwilling person to save a million? a billion? I would not. > China has done quite well China